Whether a relationship will work or fail depends largely on the ability of the couple to become and stay attractive to each other. In this message, you will learn the difference between beauty and attractiveness and how to master the art of being attractive.

3 kinds of Love What Love Got to do with it 7 Common Love Lies Colors of Love Decoding her Love Language Is this Love I'm Feeling? Making Love Last ... But I Love you How To Know if he/she Really Loves you You choose who you love

Love is one of the most misused and misunderstood words on the surface of the earth. Yet, it is the very foundation for any successful marriage. Here, Pastor Kingsley identifies the 4 kinds of love and answers intimate questions on love. Learn from this Valentine classic how to identify true love and make it last forever.

Marriage is never an emergency. It is a negotiation, a choice and a deal so you need to know what you want and want what you get. In this message, Pastor Kingsley teaches you how to strike a good deal in marriage and not be defrauded into a marriage where you are the only one trying to keep the two people together.

Our similarities keep us together but when we don’t make room for our differences, they will lead to an even greater problem in marriage. Learn how to enjoy a peaceful marriage as Pastor Kingsley shows married couples the purpose of our differences, how to understand and settle differences when they arise in marriage.

Are you finding married life though? Does it feel like more than you bargained for? You don’t have to go through it alone. Listen to Pastor Mildred Okonkwo as she shares wisdom nuggets on how to deal with challenges in marriage.

Have you ever heard the love story of Pastor Kingsley and Mildred. This message is a collaboration with Pastor Kingsley and Mildred establishing the truth that God is a Master Planner and he has a plan for your life. God is still in the business of bringing people together.

Great women more than being successful are an inspiration to others. Any woman can be great if she can discover and harness the secret superpowers God has hidden within her. Find out these secrets in this message.

In this message, you will find out what makes a marriage work and what qualities to look out for in a life partner. You will also discover what compatibility really means and how to know if you are truly compatible with the person you are about to marry.

There are signs, There red flags. Nothing happens overnight, not even cheating. You have to study the patterns and protect yourself. “How To Know If He Will Cheat On You”

As a woman, a lot of your happiness will come from your emotional well-being - who you marry. But unfortunately, being a good woman is not good enough to earn you a good man. In this series, Pastor Kingsley shares passionately from his years of experience in counselling the basic reasons good girls marry men who don’t deserve them. You will also discover factors that affect your choice of a life partner. This is a must get for every single lady - you deserve a good marriage.

How bad do you want a great marriage? If you want it bad enough, then this message is for you. In it, Pastor Kingsley reveals the four major pillars of marriage that married couples must uphold and harness if they must enjoy a lasting marriage. Every married person should listen to this message. 

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We live in fast-paced times, from fast food to fast cars and even ‘fast’ marriages. In the light of this, what should a Christian single lady who is not expected to fast track a relationship or a marriage proposal from Mr. Right do? My advice? Listen as Pastor Mildred shares these life transforming principles that will not only make the wait worth it but would be worth the wait.

Every problem is a knowledge problem and every knowledge problem is the fault of the ignorant person. Learn the vital things you need to know about assessing and managing relationships in your life in this message.

Marriage is a journey of a lifetime so God established checks and balances to guard us against relationship mistakes. Have you ever wondered what the roles of parents, pastors and police are in a marriage? This message will enlighten you on how best you can engage with and benefit from these three major relationships as a married person.

Social media, dating sites, hook-ups are the order of the day in this generation. People fall into the trap of leaving their decision of choosing a spouse to dating sites or being hooked up with someone they have never met. But there is a serious danger in just wanting to get married and not focusing on the process. This message by Pastor Kingsley reveals who the ultimate matchmaker is and how you can align yourself to His processes.

“There is nothing required of you in marriage that is not required of you as a Christian,” says Pastor Kingsley. In this message, Pastor Mildred shares the things she learnt from the first six years of her marriage like “your spouse can love you and still not have a clue as to what you need,” while Pastor Kingsley also teaches on the things that have kept their marriage quarrel-free even though they are two different personalities.

In this message, Pastor Kingsley debunks all the myths and misconceptions surrounding the saying, ‘Opposites Attract.’ He explains the context in which it applies and cases where it doesn’t.

There is a huge difference between finding a spouse and finding the right person. Anyone can find a spouse but in Pastor Kingsley’s words, “There is a right kind of person for you.”  In this message, he reveals the right qualities to look out for in a life partner.

There are times in every marriage when it is okay to disagree with your spouse. Find out when to provide a check and balance for your spouse, especially when the safety of your marriage is on the line. You will also learn as Pastor Kingsley teaches the necessary disagreements every couple that desire a happy marriage must have.

Relationships have rules. Whenever two people come together with the aim of getting married, there are principles and guidelines they must observe to ensure their union is successful. This message outlines structures you must put in place in order to have a happy, quarrel-free relationship.

The message teaches us on how to stay in marriage, what are the major issues couples have & how to deal with challenges in marriage, Pastor K tells us how we can succeed in Marriage. This message is for all married people that desires to make their marriage work message teaches us on how to stay in marriage, what are the major issues couples have & how to deal with challenges in marriage, Pastor K tells us how we can succeed in Marriage. This message is for all married people that desires to make their marriage work

The beauty of any relationship is dependent on maturity. Maturity is not a function of age but a function of wisdom, responsibility and exposure. If you desire to have a successful marriage, maturity is not an option. There are steps to maturity that can lead to a successful marriage. Find out in this message as Pastor Kingsley shares wisdom nuggets on how to display maturity in marriage.

No matter who you marry, there will still be need for adjustments in order to find the perfect balance. And false relationship expectations are the undoing of most marriages. Listen to Pastor Kingsley as he speaks on building the right relationship skills that will help you identify and attract the perfect kind of spouse for you. 

Love is the foundation for lasting relationships so you must understand what it is, how it operates and how to recognize it so you can get the best of it. In this message, Pastor Kingsley explains the different kinds of love and how to give and identify true love in your relationships.

Are there questions in your heart regarding the woman you are about to marry? Then, this message is for you. It highlights specific red flags you should watch out for in any woman you intend to spend the rest of your life with.

Submission is one of the most controversial topics of our times. To most women, it is synonymous to slavery. In this message, Pastor Mildred brings a fresh perspective to the subject, based on God’s Word, as she corrects wrong notions founded on negative experiences of some married women. She also highlights the immense benefits of true submission.

One of the greatest needs you will have as a human being is the need for companionship. In this message, Pastor Kingsley draws the line between being alone and being lonely. He shows you how to enjoy every day while waiting for Mr. or Miss Right and helps you deal with personal and societal pressures that comes with being single.

When you marry for the wrong reason you most likely have married the wrong person.” This is the underlying message behind the book, ‘25 Wrong Reasons People Enter Relationships’. In a simple and straight forward manner this book critically analyzes 25 of the most common wrong reasons people enter courtship or marriage and proffers scriptural and practical alternatives to these wrong reasons.

Marriage is one of the major relationships in life that can make or mar you forever. Yet, the average person, married or yet to marry, is ignorant of the purpose and operations of a marital relationship. This message is a crash course on the basics you need to know about your marriage.

There’s a popular notion that misunderstandings make marriages stronger. But a stress-free marriage is possible if you and your spouse decide and commit to having one. Listen to Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred as they share on their journey to a stress and quarrel free marriage while revealing a few of their secrets to achieving and enjoying the marriage of their dreams.

In Christian circles today, the issue of ‘God said or God told me...’ has brought a lot of confusion and caused a lot of problems, especially for unassuming young ladies. Embedded in this book are timeless truths that will clear out any doubt from your heart as regards who to marry.

A sequel to “Don’t marry her if”. As a woman, looking for the right qualities in the man you are about to marry is good. But looking out to know if he has wrong qualities is also important. In this message, Pastor Mildred highlights qualities you need to stay clear of once sighted.

Have you been having negative experiences with your relationships? Do you think you can do better but just don’t know how? Then, this masterclass is tailored just for you. Love, Dating and Marriage Ministry presents “Turning around your Relationship Fortune” with Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, an exclusive masterclass for single ladies only.

Every human being can be influenced either for good or bad. Good influences will lead to a joy-filled marriage while negative influences will lead to a bad marriage. Learn to identify and avoid negative influences in your relationship as Pastor Kingsley points out five indisputable relationship influences.

Before you enter into any relationship that would be worth your while, it is essential that you have standards that are unique to you which consists of what you expect to find in a life partner. The List is a message that outlines the necessity of having these standards and the benefits they offer. In it, Pastor Kingsley also shares what he had on his own list when he was looking for a life partner.

Many single people are desperate to get married today while many more married people are ready to leave their marriage. A great marriage is possible if you are willing to follow the right process to achieve one but Satan wants you to believe that it is impossible to settle for an average marriage. Listen as Pastor Kingsley deals with these mindsets and teaches on the right way to go about relationships. 

God hates divorce yet it is an increasing epidemic in our world today. Some marriages have broken down to being life-threatening such that divorce seem like the only option. In this message, Pastor Kingsley reveals the major cause of divorce and the practical ways to guard against its threat on your marriage.

3 Kinds of Love What's Love got to do with it 7 Common Love Lies Do's and Don'ts of a Romantic Relationship No Romance without Finance Colors of Love Decoding her Love Language Is this Love I'm Feeling? Making Love Last Getting your Happily Ever After

Have you ever been heartbroken? It is true that the journey to healing from a heartbreak can be very emotionally draining but in Pastor Kingsley’s words, “A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.” This message contains topics like “How to avoid a heart break”, “When it is okay to break to a relationship” and “The journey to healing from a break up.”

Is getting married to a virgin your basis for choosing a spouse? Do you believe that marrying a virgin guarantees a good marriage? Listen to the conversations, questions and answers as Pastor Kingsley shares his view on virginity.

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Manual is a women’s only meeting with Pastor Kingsley and Steve Harris. In it, Pastor Kingsley in his very unique manner exposes the psychology of the average man to women so as to give her some understanding, peace and leverage in her relationships. You will laugh and learn so much.

In a world full of filters and photoshop, marriage considerations require that you look BEYOND FACE VALUE, and this message is here to set you on the right path… A lot of people go into relationships just with the mindset of ‘I want to marry’. Don’t start a relationship just because you want to marry. When you do that, two things happen…

The person you choose to spend the rest of your life with can either introduce you to a life of improvement or imprisonment. Your choice of a spouse shouldn’t be based on love alone. This message exposes the fickle nature of our feelings and why it shouldn’t be the ultimate reason for choosing a spouse.

A lot of people want to be married but never stop to ask, “Why do people get married?” Not knowing the answer to this question can jeopardize your relationship. This message by Pastor Kingsley tackles with practical solutions issues ranging from why people marry to choosing the right partner, pre-marital sex, how to have a successful marriage, divorce and much more. 

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Your personal habits will either make or mar your relationships. Are you struggling with addictions, masturbation and other sexual vices? Learn as Pastor Kingsley walks you through the process of breaking free from such harmful vices so that you can begin to enjoy a healthy life and relationship.

There are signs, There red flags. Nothing happens overnight, not even cheating. You have to study the patterns and protect yourself. “How To Know If He Will Cheat On You”

Every couple needs to routinely check on how they are doing in their married life. In this classic by Pastor Kingsley, you will discover how to check the health status of your marriage and what to do to improve it. And if you are single, you will learn what to do about the societal pressures that come with not being married.

If you ever have been faced with the decision of choosing a life partner and you are wondering what attributes to look out for in an ideal spouse, then this is just for you. This book identifies ten vital qualities you cannot ignore while making the choice of a life partner and rightly answers the question ‘Who Should I Marry?’

Have you found true love? Do you know how to make it last forever? In Pastor Kingsley’s words,“Love is beautiful but it is also a commitment that must be sustained through actions.” Discover what you must do to deepen the love in your relationship and marriage in this message. 

A lot of married women are generally unhappy in their marriages. But you can turn the tides by identifying and avoiding the 7 mistakes most women will naturally make in marriage as Pastor Mildred highlights them in this marriage classic.

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A woman is one of God’s most beautiful creations, specially crafted with precision and a specific purpose. Sadly, women are faced with identity issues and equality struggles with men. This message is an all-encompassing biblical counsel to equip women to effectively engage and overcome the unique challenges she faces in these times. This sequel will help you live your best life. 

Dealing with the past could really hurt but to reach out to the future you must learn to let go. This message teaches practical steps on how to let go of the past and reach out for the beautiful things God has in store for you.

Sex and the City Sexplicit What nobody tells you about Sex Seven Sex Lies Sex Matters Undressing Sex Overcoming Sexual Temptation I must Marry a Virgin Violated Dealing with Strong Habits

Relationship between a man and a woman is all God’s idea. God has a lot to say about relationships and matters of the heart in His Word. In this message, you will learn what to do and what not to do as a child of God in your relationship.

This is a collaboration by Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred sharing their love story to encourage those trusting God for a life partner. Pastor Kingsley answers the question “Why did God institute marriage?” While Pastor Mildred recounts their love story and the role God played in bringing them together. This message will answer a lot of questions you may have concerning your relationship.

Ever heard of “Money answers all things” or “money makes the world go round”? Most of the issues couples have are linked to financial matters and it is said to be one of the leading causes of divorce. Money is crucial in the journey of love. Listen to Pastor Kingsley as he demystifies the mystery of money in connection with romance.

Marriage is not a reward, it is an assignment and that makes it demanding. In this message, you will learn as Pastor Kingsley teaches on the demands of marriage and the right way to relate with your spouse. Pastor Mildred also gives a bonus, timely and concise advice to the single ladies on character.

Most couples have problems in their marriages because they don’t understand what love is all about. There is more to love than how you feel about your partner. In Pastor Kingsley’s words, “If you cannot love the right way it is better to not love at all.” In this Valentine edition, you will learn what love is, what love is not and how to love right.

There is a season for everything under the heavens - even marriage. In Pastor Kingsley’s words, “If you choose a spouse at the wrong time in your life you will most likely have problems in your marriage.” In this message, learn how to identify the ideal seasons for choosing a life partner as Pastor Kingsley shares on some of the major issues he encountered while counselling couples.

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This message is a continuation of Colours of Love 1. In it you will learn about the different stages of love and how to manage your emotions effectively.

Being sexy is not just about having sex. There is a lot more to sex that your husband requires from you. And you are the only person licensed to provide this. Find out as Pastor Kingsley shares on the three important factors you should note about being sexy. This message is for every woman who desires to be and remain sexy to her husband.

Every tribe has both good and bad people in it. Some believers erroneously believe that God wants us to marry from certain tribes or ethnicity. In this very crucial message, Pastor Kingsley addresses several tribal concerns and reveals the tribe everyone should go looking for a life partner from.

The Mandate With Pastor Mildred-Kingsley Okonkwo

There are certain factors to consider when choosing a life partner. Beauty, charisma, money and physical attraction are important however there are other vital qualities to look out for in a spouse. In this message you will discover these vital qualities and how to identify them in a life partner. 

Choosing the right partner begins with your ability to attract the right person. You can’t attract anyone beyond your level of knowledge. This message is laced with seven scripture-based practical principles on how to become truly attractive.

Most women have a passion for family life but a home is not strong until a man is committed to its well-being. And God’s agenda on earth relies heavily on the family unit to succeed. This message is a response to a spiritual sense of urgency to expose an all-out attack of the enemy against marriages by Pastor Kingsley as he advises couples, especially husbands, to step up their game in protecting their families from danger. 

Knowing how a person really feels about you may be tricky, as you may be blinded by your own love for them. You may have even heard them say “I love you” as often as possible, and still feel unsure about whether he/she really loves you. In this book, 'How to Know if He or She Really Loves you", you will find helpful tips that serve as clear indicators of his or her love for you.

Good marriages don’t just happen; people make them happen. Any couple can drift apart if they don’t put in the effort to stay together. In this message, Pastor Kingsley establishes that the spouse you have right now is good enough for you and what you need is a renewed commitment in order to make them great.

God gave us sexual feelings and everything God made and gave to man is good. But, there is a divine prescription for sex that if only we will follow it, we will enjoy a fulfilling marital sexual life. In this message, Pastor Kingsley corrects the wrong notion that sex is cheap while addressing many other sex-related controversies.

A lot of single men are missing out on genuine wife materials because they are fixated on qualities that count for nothing in marriage. Pastor Kingsley, in this message, charges the ladies on how not to sell themselves short through bad character and desperate behaviors around men while he advises the men on how to recognize a wife material.

The rich and the poor both deal with sexual temptation. All sexual perversions started with a sexual sin. Sexual sin will derail and ultimately destroy the glorious destiny that a child of God is blessed with. In this message, Pastor Kingsley goes to great lengths to equip you on how to protect your life from the onslaught of sexual temptations.

Marriage automatically confers leadership on a man. This message is a personal time out with MARRIED MEN ONLY by Pastor Kingsley. In it, he broke down the art of taking responsibility as a man, the secret to marital success and how to love your wife effectively.

Do you know your spouse’s love language? In this emotional yet impactful message, Pastor Kingsley teaches on the essential need of every couple. This message will open your heart and teach you hard truths on love. It is a must-listen for every couple who desires to improve on the quality of love in their marriage.

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Does your parents’ marriage mirror the kind of marriage you desire? If their marriage is your standard then it can determine how far your marriage will go. Discover how the behavioural patterns you learnt from your parents is affecting your marriage and how you can set the right trend for your children.

There are common questions people ask about controversial issues like divorce, remarriage, sex, finance etc that everyone who desires a lasting relationship must have the right answers to. It’s not a crime not to know these things but it is a crime not to ask about them. In this message, Pastor Kingsley addresses these issues and more.

Mandate is an awakening for men to pay attention to the five major kinds of relationships in their lives. Mandate is an all-men meeting with Pastor Kingsley calling men to rise up to their function and roles as fathers as their absence or presence without impact has devastating impact on their families and society at large.. This is a message for any man who is going somewhere with his life.

Before a man marries a woman, she is the goal. After marriage, her relevance counts based on her functionality to the man. In this message, Pastor Kingsley exposes the common mistakes women make in relationships and teaches her negotiating skills that puts her at an advantage in her relationships.

What does the Bible say about Courtship? What is the right thing to do and expect from the person you are in courtship with? What are the red flags to watch out for while in courtship? Learn these and more in this message.

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This message is a self-examination tool kit for every single woman. It reveals the seven major things you might be doing wrong in your relationship and the practical steps you must take to get in shape for the right relationship that God has for you.

If we were to look through your list of requirements for an ideal spouse, what would we find in it? Tall, dark, handsome, rich… Well, in this message you get a one-time opportunity to get to see what Pastor Mildred had on her list before she met her husband. They were qualities she just couldn’t compromise on and some she wished she had included. I must warn you ahead, this message is hard truth served hot.

People go to great lengths to prepare for the wedding at the expense of the marriage proper. The principal cause of most failed marriages is a lack of preparation. Pastor Kingsley reveals that the Bible never says that you must have trouble in your marriage but that marriage will be challenging to the single life that you are already used to. He also lists all the ways you can rightly prepare for your marriage in this message.

Have you ever been in love? In this message, you will learn how to assess if the strong emotions you feel is truly love. And if it is, how to sustain it.

This is an all-time classic bundle for every man who wants to live his best life. It contains high-impact sessions such as 7 Reasons Great Men Don't Last & Small Ones Never Realize Their Potentials by Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, Fatherhood by Pastor Gideon Mba, Faith by Pastor Segun Oke, Managing your Family Finance, Business and more. This is a must-get for every man, married or single. 

Choosing a life partner and having a great marriage does not have to be mysterious and stressful. Most single people work towards making it to the altar but making it in the marriage is the most important factor. In this explicit session, Pastor Kingsley outlines from God’s word what your expectations regarding your spouse should be.